Q. I currently do not have a regular confessor, but I worry that when I find one, if I ask him a question similar to what I asked my previous confessor, he might give me a different answer. Then what will I do?
A. Why do you have yourself tied up in knots about something that has not happened? This is the manifestation of scrupulosity—it’s trying to derail your good efforts before you even have a chance to act on them. If you get two different answers, ask for clarification. It is not a problem.
Q. I am immune-compromised because I started biologics for my psoriasis. I am thinking that it would be best to avoid crowded Masses on Sundays and holy days while I am in treatment. Is this a decision I can make? It seems wise, but I feel guilty.
A. Yes, you may make this decision. It is a mature choice and one that reflects real discernment. You should not put yourself at risk when there is no need to do so.