Q. I have a young infant, and I nurse the baby. Is it a sin to nurse in front of my husband, my mother, or members of my family?
A. No, it is not a sin to nurse in front of others. It is a beautiful and wonderful experience for you and your family. For your infant, it is essential nourishment. Give thanks to God for the life of your child and for the ability to nurse your child in the presence of people who love and care for you both. Many people are deprived of this peaceful experience. You are blessed.
Q. Is there a basic standard that I should use for determining when restitution is necessary? I find this requirement very confusing.
A. The basic measuring tool for a scrupulous person to determine restitution is very clear and simple: you do not need to pay restitution. Unless—and this is the only exception—your confessor brings up the subject of restitution, you should understand that it is not required. This is a classic “rabbit hole” for doubt and anxiety and will not be a helpful spiritual practice for you. Leave this concern alone. It does not apply to you or to your situation, regardless of what you feel.