Q. We left for mass at a reasonable time but arrived at the Gloria because of unexpected delays and traffic. Is our obligation fulfilled for Sunday, or do we need to go to another Mass?
A. Your obligation is fulfilled, and there is no need to do anything else. You tried to be on time, and, due to circumstances beyond your control, you arrived late. There is no need to do anything more. You were faithful, and you fulfilled what was expected of you. Be at peace.
Q. My sister is planning on being married on a beach by a justice of the peace. Although she is a baptized Catholic, she does not practice her faith and has no intention of doing so. Our family is torn. May we attend her wedding without committing sin? Not attending seems to be too much.
A. I know you can find many opinions about this. I offer the best pastoral advice that I can offer. Your sister is not inviting you to a religious event. It is a social event and nothing more. She is not asking your opinion. Your attendance is not providing her with “permission.” It is purely social, by her choice, and your attendance is purely social. Attend the wedding and be at peace with your decision.